Can bereavement cause OCD? 

OCD - obsessive compulsive disorder is a neurobiological disorder which studies show is most probably inherited. So bereavement is not the cause of OCD.  

Having said that, people with existing OCD or with a pre-disposition can find that their symptoms begin or are triggered by a specific event such as the death of a loved one.  For more information about the the causes of OCD click here. 

OCD is definitely made worse by anxiety, as individuals with this condition learn that they can control their anxiety or stress with repetitive or obsessive rituals or compunctions.  It is a way for the brain to distract itself from the difficulty of facing the grief they feel.  

For this reason, many people report that their OCD was brought on by a bereavement.  It is the stress and anxiety of grieving which are particularly difficult for those with a tendency for OCD and can trigger symptoms.  

Coping with Grief and OCD

Understanding that grief is hard for everyone, but especially so for those with OCD is a good start on the road to recovery.  

Acceptance of your grief, and the feelings that it brings can help.  Learning healthy strategies to cope with your grief will lessen the need for OCD compulsions while grieving.  

You can find lots of pages about coping with grief on this site, including ways of reducing anxiety through activities and yoga. 

This link from the OCD Recovery Centre has some really good information about the feelings that you will encounter and how you can learn to cope with them but if you are having difficulties controlling obsessive behaviours, do get medical help.  

Treatments may include medications and therapies such as CBT or cognitive behavioural therapy.  

You can get CBT online these days which can be much more convenient than having to travel to see a therapist face to face, and it is completely confidential.  We recommend the highly qualified expert counselors and psychologists at BetterHelp.  See below.  

Another treatment which people find helpful is hypnotherapy.  You can do this yourself at home with Hypnotherapy Downloads which have been created by professional medical hypnotherapists.  They have several specialising in OCD: 

Gentle OCD Treatment Download

Stop Obsessive Checking Download

Stop Obsessive Cleaning Download

Stop Compulsive Hand Washing Download

Overcome Exercise Addiction

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Have You Considered One-on-One Online Grief Counseling? 

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Do you feel alone and sad with no support and no idea how to move forward?  It can be tough when you are stuck in grief to find the motivation to get the most out of your precious life. 

Online counseling can help by giving you that support so you don't feel so alone. You can have someone to talk to anytime you like, a kind and understanding person who will help you to find meaning in life again, to treasure the memories of your loved one without being overwhelmed and to enjoy your activities, family and friends again.

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Hypnosis for Grief - 10 Ways It Can Help You

Try a gentle hypnotherapy track to relax the mind. Learn how self-hypnosis can help you cope with grief at any time of the day or night.  

Read more about it here. 


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